I Love Writing, I Love Sharing

When one wishes to create and share a 'gift,' it takes a lot of work and time to do so. 

Yes, like working on any art form, it is a process. 

To tell you the truth, I never knew this is how it would unfold for me in all my years of life on earth. 

I once remembered many years ago a close friend from New York, named Maxine, telling me I should write. 

She had told me that the way I shared things with her, writing would be a natural progression. 

"I do not think so," was my answer, trying to be humble as ever. 

For quite some time I considered myself as someone who did not have something to say or a truth to unearth. 

However, within a few years, her words rang true. 

It has taken me decades to grow and develop this realization. 

Constructive criticism or feedback from others has played an invaluable part in my learning experience. 

The world of computers, the internet, and my education and knowledge in publishing and website development have afforded me this continuing opportunity.

However, I do not look for validation from others or for a prize. 

I am happy writing. It fills me with sheer joy, like how an artist feels inside while expressing. 

The satisfaction I get from the mere act of writing is good enough for me.

And I like writing very short narratives that can be completed very quickly. 

Also, maybe a compilation of my writings can be developed as a booklet or an ebook if I choose to do so. 

This is a personal hobby that has brought me immense delight. It keeps me preoccupied and my brain engaged at this stage of my life. It is a pleasure to share these exploits with you. 

For I use 'my' writings to give back some of the insights I learned from my 'teachers.' 

Diplomacy

For all my life, I have always wanted to be like a diplomat. 

To be able to speak in such a way that it always gathers genuine peace with others.

 

In other words, "How to converse with others?" And, there I say, 'truthfully.' Truth is often left out conveniently to get our own way. 

 
When my dear mother was alive, 'speaking lovingly' was my most desired goal. 

Diplomacy, in layman's terms, is the art and practice of communicating and relating with others peacefully. 

It involves communication, negotiation, and building relationships promoting cooperation. 

Essentially, it's a way to manage your affairs without resorting to conflict or having a war of words. 

Diplomacy is to genuinely use dialogue, persuasion, and compromise to find mutual ground, or, more so, peaceful solutions for any disagreements. 

I was told by my mother that 'the answer is, or could be, the problem.' 

Having such a dilemma is not what you desire! Therefore, one's answer is very important. 

"A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger." Proverbs 15:1 

You see, diplomacy focuses on establishing and maintaining positive relationships through peaceful means, which brings about trust and understanding. 

It requires skill and tact to achieve such. Choose your words wisely.

How does one develop that 'skill' of diplomacy? Well, that ability involves studying how to go about acquiring that technique. 

How to traverse mastering the art of diplomacy for personal interactions, and how to do it lovingly? 

By being gracious, loving, and nurturing. 

Use empathy: Put oneself in others' shoes to grasp their perspectives and motivations. 

Stay calm under pressure and avoid impulsive reactions—easier said than done! 

Tips involve listening carefully, speaking politely, being composed, and showing respect. Most importantly, avoid jumping to assumptions or conclusions. 

Recognize when to speak and when to pause or listen. Sometimes silence is golden. 

Develop a library of diplomatic words and use it often, such as "soothing," "poise," "polite," and "positive."

Also, if you think like a servant-leader, you should use poise and creativity. 

We should learn to "agree to disagree without becoming disagreeable." - My marriage vow!

Practice your diplomatic skills often until it becomes a good habit. When we are prone to such, it becomes a program.

Reflect on your conversation, analyzing it to be more effective. What worked, and what could be improved? 

Continue learning, for it is an ongoing ability, honing your skills until it becomes like a gift. 

It is your "Rite of Passage!"