Diplomacy

For all my life, I have always wanted to be like a diplomat. 

To be able to speak in such a way that it always gathers genuine peace with others.

 

In other words, "How to converse with others?" And, there I say, 'truthfully.' Truth is often left out conveniently to get our own way. 

 
When my dear mother was alive, 'speaking lovingly' was my most desired goal. 

Diplomacy, in layman's terms, is the art and practice of communicating and relating with others peacefully. 

It involves communication, negotiation, and building relationships promoting cooperation. 

Essentially, it's a way to manage your affairs without resorting to conflict or having a war of words. 

Diplomacy is to genuinely use dialogue, persuasion, and compromise to find mutual ground, or, more so, peaceful solutions for any disagreements. 

I was told by my mother that 'the answer is, or could be, the problem.' 

Having such a dilemma is not what you desire! Therefore, one's answer is very important. 

"A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger." Proverbs 15:1 

You see, diplomacy focuses on establishing and maintaining positive relationships through peaceful means, which brings about trust and understanding. 

It requires skill and tact to achieve such. Choose your words wisely.

How does one develop that 'skill' of diplomacy? Well, that ability involves studying how to go about acquiring that technique. 

How to traverse mastering the art of diplomacy for personal interactions, and how to do it lovingly? 

By being gracious, loving, and nurturing. 

Use empathy: Put oneself in others' shoes to grasp their perspectives and motivations. 

Stay calm under pressure and avoid impulsive reactions—easier said than done! 

Tips involve listening carefully, speaking politely, being composed, and showing respect. Most importantly, avoid jumping to assumptions or conclusions. 

Recognize when to speak and when to pause or listen. Sometimes silence is golden. 

Develop a library of diplomatic words and use it often, such as "soothing," "poise," "polite," and "positive."

Also, if you think like a servant-leader, you should use poise and creativity. 

We should learn to "agree to disagree without becoming disagreeable." - My marriage vow!

Practice your diplomatic skills often until it becomes a good habit. When we are prone to such, it becomes a program.

Reflect on your conversation, analyzing it to be more effective. What worked, and what could be improved? 

Continue learning, for it is an ongoing ability, honing your skills until it becomes like a gift. 

It is your "Rite of Passage!"